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Do Cats Like Head Massages? The Interesting Answer

Cats are intriguing animals that have a myriad of ways in which they like to interact with us. While all cats are different, most domestic cats love head massages.

Not only do they enjoy the physical interaction and the motion of the massage, but they can get a lot of health benefits from massages, too. They especially enjoy being rubbed behind the ears and around the shoulders, but some cats really enjoy a scratch on the top of the head, too.

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Do Cats Like Head Massages?

Cats like affection from their owners. It lets them know they’re loved, and it makes them feel safe and wanted. And head massages, as well as body massages, can help to relieve stress while even improving blood circulation and generally lifting your cat’s mood.

However, it is worth remembering that cats can become overstimulated. Yours may have enough of having its head massaged after a few minutes or it may enjoy it for the full length of the movie you’re watching.

Generally, when your cat has had enough, it will move its head away or leave your lap. Some cats, however, react to overstimulation by batting, scratching, or biting your hand.

Do Cats Like to Be Kissed?

In truth, cats don’t really get much from a kiss, unless they have been getting kisses since they were kittens and recognize it as you paying them attention and showing love. If a cat isn’t used to receiving kisses, and it is a cat that doesn’t know you, they might see it as an odd behavior and show signs of caution or anxiety if you lean in to kiss their head.

Why Do Cats Roll on Their Backs When They See You?

Sometimes, your cat might roll on its back when it sees you. A cat will only do this if they trust you deeply and it is a sign of affection and trust. It may also be a sign that they want their tummy rubbed or that they are ready to play.

Why Do Cats Raise Their Bums When You Pet Them?

The most likely reason that a cat raises its bum when you pet them is that they are enjoying the experience and want you to pay more attention to the area. It may also be an instinctive reaction and some cats will raise their butts when they are in heat.

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Should I Headbutt My Cat?

Cats headbutt as a sign of affection and to mark you as one of their own. It is a form of social bonding. If your cat headbutts you, it is fine to do it back and you can try initiating the headbutt yourself. Take it slowly and your cat should view it as a sign of affection that they will appreciate.

Do Cats Like Being Talked To?

Obviously, cats don’t really understand what people are saying to them, but studies suggest that they still like being talked to. They pay attention to the voice, and studies show that cats prefer a soft and gentle voice from their owner.

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Cats are very expressive animals, and they appreciate attention and affection from their owner. They especially enjoy massages and, as well as body massages, they enjoy having different areas of the head massaged, although all cats are different. Cats also like being talked to and if your cat trusts you, it may also appreciate a slow, gentle headbutt that shows your affection.

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