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Why Does My Cat Sit On Me All the Time? 6 Reasons for This Behavior

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Cats, for the most part, are not always the most affectionate creatures in the world, and for many cat lovers, this is precisely the reason for owning one. Dogs are enthusiastic and affectionate to the point where it can become overwhelming, whereas cats are far more independent and content to do their own thing.

This is, of course, a generalization, and some cats are extremely affectionate. No matter the type of cat you own, most cat owners will agree that having a warm feline cuddle in your lap is a wonderful experience and creates a close bonded feeling. Still, you may be wondering why your cat sits on your lap or why they have suddenly made such a habit of it?

In this article, we’ll look at six common reasons that your cat sits on you all the time.

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The 6 Reasons Cats Sit on You

1. Affection

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One of the most common reasons that your cat sits on you is simply for affection. Cats have a reputation for being aloof and unfriendly, but as most cat owners will tell you, this is most often not the case. If your cat feels safe and trusts you, they’ll come and sit on your lap to both give and receive attention. While this is common in affectionate breeds like Ragdolls, even the most aloof cats seek out attention from time to time.

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2. Warmth

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Another common reason for a cat sitting on you is simply for warmth. Cats like to be warm, and your lap is the perfect warm and safe place for them to cuddle in. You may have noticed how your cat gravitates toward the sunny spot in your home or near a radiator or fireplace. Cats seek out these warm places so their bodies do not have to work so hard to maintain their base temperature.

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3. Safety

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Besides affection, comfort, and warmth, your lap also offers your cat a place of safety. When your cat needs to take their daily nap, they often want to find a place where they feel safe and secure to have a peaceful, restful sleep. Your cat sees you as their protector, and they know that they are safe with you because you’ll likely chase away any unwanted predators!

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4. It’s Soothing

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The warmth of your body, the familiar scent, the sound of your voice, and the regular rhythm of your heartbeat are all soothing to your feline. All these familiar attributes give your cat a feeling of safety and offer a soothing way to lull them to sleep.

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5. Marking Their Territory

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Cats are highly territorial creatures, and they claim their territory by marking it with their scent. You may have seen your cat rubbing themselves up against furniture, chairs, and beds to claim them as their own, and the same may be true when they sit on and rub against you.

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6. Socializing

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Some cats are friendlier than others, to the point where they are almost as social and friendly as dogs. When they jump up into your lap, this is often just a case of them being friendly and social with their owners, especially if they are the only cat in the home.

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What makes a lap cat?

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All cat owners love the feeling of their cat cuddling in their laps, but some cats are far more prone to the behavior than others. There are several reasons for this, including their breed, their history, and even their unique personality. Some breeds that are not known to be overly affectionate may become the lap cat that you’ve always wanted, while common lap-loving breeds may prefer their own space.

Some cats may stay away from your lap if you have other pets in the home, and they don’t feel safe on your lap. Some cats just prefer to love you from a distance. Kittens can be trained to become lap cats, no matter the breed, and all it takes is a bit of time and dedication. Some kittens are dedicated lap cats, only to grow out of the habit as they get older. Senior cats are often prone to lazing in their owner’s laps, as it gives them security, comfort, warmth, and a feeling of safety.

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Final thoughts

If your cat is sitting on you all the time, there is definitely no reason to worry. In most cases, it’s simply that they enjoy being with you and are seeking attention, safety, and affection. If your cat sits on your lap all the time, consider it an honor! You’ve made it onto the exclusive list of people whom your cat adores!

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